“Freedom and love go together. Love is not a reaction. If I love you because you love me, that is mere trade, a thing to be bought in the market; it is not love. To love is not to ask anything in return, not even to feel that you are giving something- and it is only such love that can know freedom.” (Jiddu Krishnamurti)
A reaction that is possessive and conditional is not love. Love is unconditional and the rest takes care of itself, because whatever the person does, it does not matter…and that is where you find freedom.